Why I’m Finally Doing This

Why now? Why, after all these years, am I finally committing to this? With everything I have on my plate – work, family, responsibilities.. why am I adding another thing?
The truth is, this isn’t just an idea I came up with recently. This has been on my heart for years. That nagging feeling, that deep sense of wanting to contribute, to help, to share knowledge and experience, it has never gone away.
I’ve wanted to create this platform for so long, but life kept pulling me in different directions. Every time I tried to start, something major happened.
- When my mom was diagnosed with cancer, I had to pause everything and be there for her.
- After she passed, I tried again, but my responsibilities at the university needed my full attention.
- When that chapter ended, I had to step up for my younger sibling, ensuring I provided for him.
- Then came another season. I got married, had a baby, and naturally, my focus shifted.
- During the pandemic, I struggled on my own, reassessing everything.
- In 2023, I finally finished my VA Starter Kit, thinking this was the year I’d go all in
- Then in early 2024, I lost everything. My work files, my business assets, my professional projects, even my personal files were wiped out.
It was heartbreaking. I had to start from scratch, slowly piecing things back together.
But through all these ups and downs, one thing never changed:
That pull in my heart telling me – you need to do this.
And now , I’m doing it.
Why Now? Why Not Before?
Let’s be honest, there are already so many VA coaches, mentors, and online courses out there.
So why add another one? Why still do this when there are already thousands of people teaching the same thing?
Because every VA has a different journey.
Yes, we might be sharing the same industry, but my experiences, my struggles, and my wins – they’re unique. And I know there are people out there who will resonate with my story more than anyone else’s.
I don’t want to just hand out generic “how-to” guides. I want to give real, practical insights, the things I wish someone told me when I was just starting.
I also waited until I was in a position to give real value. I wanted to be ready, to make sure I wasn’t just rushing into it without direction.
And now, with 15 years of experience, I know what works, what doesn’t, and how to guide someone from zero experience to a thriving VA career.
What Makes This Different?
Unlike other VA courses that drown you in PDFs and downloadable guides, this isn’t just about giving information, it’s about real-world application.
What You’ll Get Here:
- No Generic How-To’s. I don’t just give steps; I show you how to apply them in real life.
- Real-Life Experience. Everything I teach is something I’ve done myself.
- Personalized Guidance. This isn’t just another course. It’s mentorship, a space where you can ask real questions and get real answers.
- Community & Support. You won’t be doing this alone. This is a supportive space where aspiring and experienced VAs can connect and learn from each other.
And most importantly, I want to keep this free for as long as I can.
Because I know how overwhelming it is to start with nothing. I’ve been there. I remember how frustrating it was to feel lost in a sea of conflicting advice, not knowing what actually works.
I want to change that for you.
What’s Next?
As I step into this chapter, my mission is simple: to give value, to help others start, and to build a platform where aspiring VAs can find clarity, confidence, and real mentorship.
So if you’ve ever felt stuck, unsure, or lost in endless Google searches, this is your space.
Here’s what I want you to do next:
- Download the Free VA Starter Kit. It’s my ultimate beginner’s guide to help you get started.
- Join the VA Diary Community. Surround yourself with people who are on the same journey.
- Follow along. Whether it’s the blog, the podcast, or upcoming courses, I’ll be here to guide you every step of the way.
Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned in 15 years, it’s this:
Your dream career is possible. You just have to take the first step.
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